While millions mourn the passing of Robert Redford, few know the full story behind his first marriage to Lola Van Wagenen—a relationship filled with love, hardship, and resilience that deeply shaped his life. Robert and Lola met when he was a young man trying to find his place in the world. They married in 1958, despite having very little money and settling in New York City. Lola was a young Mormon college student from Utah, and she became Robert’s partner during a difficult time when he faced personal challenges, including lost opportunities and an uncertain career path. After their wedding, they had only $300 and borrowed a car to get home. Their early years were marked by financial struggle and simple living. Tragedy struck the couple when their first child died of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) at just five months old. The loss was devastating and left deep…
